Secrets

After seeing the video below I started asking myself if I had any secrets that I could send him. My first thought was no I don’t, but the more I think about it and the more I search myself the more secrets I find. The secrets I have wont hurt any one today or at least I don’t think they would, they might have done so in the past but today they are just some of my very heavy luggage. It makes me wonder what would change if I told someone. Would I become another person in their eyes? Would I become a better or worse person in their eyes? Which leads me to why should something in the past change someone’s opinion about you today, if they like you they like you for who you are right now, not who you were or what you did (within reason of course).

I strongly believe people can change, I know a lot of people that have changed and me myself has changed over the years, the only thing that takes some time to understand is that YOU cant change anyone, THEY have to want to change in order to change.

Now Im rambling, just watch the video below and visit his blog.